11-22-18
Today is Thanksgiving. I’ve always enjoyed this day despite any frustrations, personal or societally placed. For better or worst it is a day to reflect on that which we are thankful for. We are told it began as a way for two cultures to merge during the first winter that the pilgrims arrived in the New World. Taking thanksgiving only in the light, it’s easy to see the theme of compassion running concurrently with the holiday. I am no historian, so I have no authority to theorize the legitimacy of the first thanksgiving and the hundreds that have subsequently occurred since then. I can only speak on what I have welcome the day to be.
Family has been and continues to be one of the most important elements in my life. This day serves as an opportunity to give appreciation to those that support us, to those that continue to lift us up even when it’s hard for themselves. Family isn’t just created by the blood that runs through us… if that was the case than everyone should be quicker to accept all humans as family. Whether you believe it or not, this is true. We all come from the same place, and we all return to the same place. What makes you, makes me. You are family.
I am reminded on these days of some of the most love-filled and family-oriented experiences. The first and most prominent is of course my wedding. I was not the man that shied away from wedding preparation and planning. On the contrary; I jumped in 1000% and enjoyed a good portion of the process. Part of me misses the anticipation of throwing a party for my closest family and friends. I always wondered how that day would turn out, and I’m grateful that it was beyond my wildest expectations.
We were blessed with a tribe that gave no pushback and welcomed the challenge of aiding us with open hands, and hearts. I am forever grateful for every spirit that was there with us. I know our ancestors walked the land with us, holding us and guiding us. I know that family we may not have the privilege to see regularly, responded with warmth and with the familial zeal that is driven be sincere affection.
As Yeaysayer’s Red Cave says “I’m so blessed to have spent that time, with my family and the friends, I love with my short life I have met so many people I deeply care for…”
Lyrics:
Caught my breath upon the hill
At the edge of the domain
And further down
And when I got up,
I’m at the red cave
As if I had been put under a spell
She led me to her abode
Despite a winter’s day
White hazel rapid whirlpool
And the church of hurricane
Have spent that time
With my family and the friends
I love with my short life I have met
So many people I deeply care for
Have spent that time
With my family and the friends
I love with my short life I have met
So many people I deeply care for